Somewhere between the school run and the deadline, you lost yourself
You're good at your job. You love your kids. And you're running on empty.
The days blur — drop-offs, meetings, dinner, bath, bed, the mental load that never clocks off. You keep telling yourself you'll get to you later. But later never comes. And quietly, you've started to wonder: is this it? Is this just the season I have to survive?
You don't need another productivity hack or a self-care checklist you don't have time for. You need space to breathe, and someone alongside you while you figure out what you actually want from this stretch of your life.
Kia ora, I'm Lacey
I'm a coach — and a working parent of three. I know the particular exhaustion of this season: the love and the depletion tangled together, the feeling that everyone gets a piece of you except you. And I know what happens when we get depleted - frustration at ourselves and others.
Family life matters to me. Working does, too. And too often, when left to ourselves, modern life just doesn't stack up. We need support.
I walk alongside working parents over the long term — usually a year or two, meeting monthly. We go deep, not fast. Together we find what still brings you energy, get clear on what you want from this season of your life, and build the habits and boundaries that actually hold.
(I draw on CliftonStrengths and mindfulness tools along the way — but you're the map, not the assessment.)`
How we work together...
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This is a medium to long-term, monthly 1:1 coaching — usually one to two years
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I coach online and in person in Wellingon
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I charge $150 per hour; and prefer a up-front monthly booking - I know this is what works to cut through the busy
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One focused hour a month that's entirely yours
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Month by month, you'll
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find clarity
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rebuild your energy
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and make room for yourself inside a full life
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By the end, you'll have a roadmap to what brings you energy, excellence and ease — and real clarity on what you want from this season of parenting and work.
This is for you if...
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You're running on empty and can't remember the last time you checked in with yourself
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You want to priortize your family, and work matters to you, too
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You're starting to feel like you give to everyone, but lack support for youself
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You sense you've been surviving, not thriving — and you want more than that for this season
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"I don't even know what I want anymore" feels uncomfortably true
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You're ready to stop waiting for "later"
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You want a person, not an AI coaching session
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