Somewhere between everyone else's needs and the next deadline, you lost yourself.
Some seasons pull the ground out from under you ...
-
Becoming a parent.
-
Finding your feet again - working after having kids and wondering am I in the right place now and can anyone do this?
-
The quiet midlife reckoning where you look up and think — is this it?
They look different from the outside, but underneath they rhyme --you're running on empty, giving everyone a piece of yourself except yourself, and the map you used to navigate by doesn't quite work anymore.
You not in a crisis; disorientation is quieter than that — it's the slow erosion, the "I'm fine" that isn't, the sense that you've gone missing from your own life. That's reason enough.
You don't need another productivity hack or a self-care checklist you don't have time for. You need space to breathe, and someone alongside you while you figure out what you actually want from the next stretch of your life.
Kia ora, I'm Lacey
I'm a coach, and a working parent of three. I know the particular exhaustion and disorentation that some seasons of life can bring, and the feeling that everyone gets a piece of you except you. I know where depletion leads and the frustration that leaks out at yourself and the people you love.
Family life matters to me. Work does too. And I know in some seasons of life, it's a struggle to make it all add up. I've needed help to navigate the bumpy parts of life. and I know we're not meant to do this alone.
I walk alongside people — often over a year, meeting monthly. We go deep, not fast. Together we find what still brings you energy, get clear on what you want from this season, and build the habits and boundaries that actually hold. I draw on CliftonStrengths and mindfulness tools along the way — but you're the map, not the assessment.
How we work together...
-
Monthly 1:1 coaching for a year, the first session is free of charge
-
I coach online or in person in Wellingon
-
I charge $150 per hour; and it helps to schedule for 6-12 months in advance - I know this is what works to cut through the busy
-
This is human work. Real presence, over real time — no shortcuts, no apps standing in for a relationship.
-
By the end, you'll have a roadmap to what brings you energy, excellence and ease — and real clarity on what you want from this season.
This is for you if...
-
You're running on empty, and can't remember the last time you checked in with yourself
-
You give and give — and quietly wonder who's supporting you
-
You've been surviving, not thriving, and you want more than that for this season
-
"I don't even know what I want anymore" feels uncomfortably true
-
You're ready to stop waiting for "later"
I'VE WORKED WITH LEADERS FROM ....
Discover more with Lacey
Join Lacey's newsletter and gain access to her latest content and offerings